To get to know someone

So again, I'm going to do a Q&A blog. I came across a site that said like 50 questions to ask a girl before you marry her. Just to get to know her better I suppose. I'm not going to be answering all of these. Probably just 20 or so. I'll do every fourth question until I run out of time. So here it goes!

1. Do you think that in this world today, a relationship between a man and woman can be happy and well adjusted? *Yes, if the two get along and share the same values, and really understand and support each other.. it's possible with effort.

2. What is your idea of an ideal career for you to have? *I would major in Anthropology and travel the world/country studying cultures and doing excavations.

3. What is being happy all about in your mind? *Fulfilling needs, accomplishing goals, surrounded by support and other happy people.

4. What do you feel your 5 weakest characteristics are? *OTD, jealousy, no organized schedule, scatterbrained, sleepyhead.

5. Have you ever had a hard time getting along with your family? *Quite a few times we disagree, or have fought, it can get pretty severe at times. I have a very emotional, stubborn family so yes it's difficult sometimes.

6. When you go out and about with your friends, where do you like to go the most? *Well, usually were just either at each other's house or church or I used to go to the movies or the mall or games with my friends.

7. Do you feel that your future is going to be filled with adventures, or do you view it as boring? *I'm hopeful that I'll have as much adventure as possible.

8. Which has a higher value in your mind, relationships with people or monetary gain? *relationships with people. It's less selfish and I like knowing all kinds of different people.

9. Do you imagine yourself a mother with a houseful of kids one day? *Of course! I love children and intend on having a couple.

10. Are you a person with a positive attitude, or do you look at life negatively? *Sad to say, but probably more negative than positive.. just because of my experiences. I try to be positive about some things, but others not so much.

11. Are you an animal lover? If so which pet would you have and why? *I like some.. not very many. As most people know i'm terrified of half the animals on this earth. I hate butterflies even, they're absolutely terrifying as well as birds. But if I had to chose a pet, it'd be some kind of teacup puppy.

12. Have you had the most embarrassing moment in your life? If so what is it? *I've had many embarrassing moments.. I embarrass myself quite often, but nothing I would say has been over the top.

13. Do you get along with anyone you meet or are you picky about who you get along with?
*I'm pretty picky.. If we don't really have similar interests or styles or values I'm not going to get along with them as well as a person who does share those things.. of course i'd probably try to be friendly and associate when necessary, but I'd prefer to be around similar people as me.

14. What values do you think is important for all people to have? *You should want to respect yourself, respect others, want to do good in life, good work ethic, don't judge people if they've done nothing, a religion should be set in your mind (even if you're one who doesn't believe in god, you should know what you do believe in, if anything), traditions are also important I think (past ones and starting your own).

15. What do you consider undesirable traits for guys to have? *lazy, bad hygiene, poor fashion, bad temper, unsupportive, big ego.

16. If you were to win a trip somewhere, where would it be and why? *First off, I'd have to recover from my fear of planes.. If that was solved, I'd want to go to Greece. I think  it's a really beautiful place.

17. Where do you think fashion will go in the next 10 years? *I honestly don't know.. I was watching clips from the NY fashion week the other day.. and this year's fall fashion looks crazy. I really wish the 40's/50's style would make a come back in a more modern way.

18. Where are your favorite family type places to go? *My family always went to Gatlinburg when I was growing up, just about every summer.. So that's probably where I like going best. As far as days out, we go to the mall or out to eat sometimes.

19. Do you see marriage in your future or are you against it? *I see marriage. I don't think marriage is for all people though. Some people who are content and able to support themselves are better off alone sometimes. But I do plan on getting married.

20. If you had a relationship with someone who became partially incapacitated physically, would you continue to be by there side? *absolutely, I loved them before, and if you love someone you should stick by them no matter what disadvantage they have. Be supportive of them.